Hard to believe another Halloween is upon us. All the spooks and goblins will be out celebrating while children are out begging for goodies.
Of course most parents throw away all the goodies they are unsure of now. No more just grabbing that Milky Way mini bar and popping it in your mouth. We must check for needle marks or suspicious appearances to the wrapper.
Ah the good old days when candy was just candy with no hinderance to eating it on Halloween.
But of course, that was the good old days.
So these good old days I’m referring to, when were they and what was the difference between them and nowadays?
I suppose most would say everything.
One thing that has changed is that parents always have and still do like to walk their kids around. I always suspected it was to grab that odd candy bar, but it was mostly to keep us safe.
That hasn’t changed except now it’s not about grabbing that candy bar to eat. It’s about grabbing it to see if it is indeed edible. Many neighborhoods have parties and many friends get together at someone’s home for a private celebration. Hey, chocolate is chocolate no matter how it’s given.
So what is the big difference between Halloween in the past and today? Not so scary. Let’s be honest here, the news is scarier than any ghost or goblin now.
I’d say for many it’s the fact dressing up is no big deal anymore.
Halloween has always been an expression of how much fun it is to leave ourselves for a short time and be someone or something else. Check out for an evening.
Being a witch, ghost or anything spooky was always a decision not made easily. It meant a great deal to have the opportunity one night a year to become whomever or whatever you chose.
We didn’t take this change lightly. It was discussed, considered and a decision often made after talking to friends and ensuring no duplication.
The creativity of one’s costume was important. It showed your individuality. Your talent at becoming someone else and leaving your skin for a night. Young girls often loved the ability and freedom to wear makeup, boys to express their inner devils or Draculas. The chance to copy an idol or the freedom to change your persona.
To put it simply, freedom to look, act or dress outrageous was something just not done in everyday life.
Schools had rules about what clothing we wore. We had pretty strict dress codes back then.
Skirts, no pants, jeans were out of the question. No one would dare. Even though we began to see them worn in movies, they were reserved for outdoor play. And if one’s parents were very modern perhaps to the mall.
In high school pants, skorts or culottes weren’t even permitted and if a girl was caught wearing these she was sent home. It worked great when you felt like cutting school. You were sent to your counselor and out you went for the day.
The idea you could dress as anything you wanted in whatever you wanted one day a year was exciting.
A far cry from today when many kids dress like Halloween every day. I’ve seen students walking out of school with hair colors I never saw in the Crayola box. Even the one with 64 options we all loved.
Here in California girls wear less clothes to school that a stripper when she’s performing, and show more skin than an Oil of Olay ad. Sporting more jewelry than Tiffanys and on parts of their bodies for which jewels were never intended.
It’s a wonder some kids today actually need to come up with costumes.
In a world of anything goes where everything is the norm, what is the excitement of stepping outside the box?
Who cares if you can be anyone you want one night a year when you are in a costume all day every day?
Okay so you’re thinking I sound old fashioned and stuffy about this and no, of course not all kids dress over the top. So yes, I do sound old and grandmaish. And yes I totally believe it’s healthy for kids to always express themselves.
I just feel when kids dress up every day it kind of makes the effort less special. Robbing them of the excitement of exercising their imagination as an out of the ordinary occurrence.
Let’s face it. If you eat hot fudge sundaes every day what’s the big deal about a trip to the ice cream parlor?
Perhaps I’m overthinking this and maybe kids who dress like Halloween every day might wear a business suit or cover their bodies completely for one night. Well perhaps, I’m not certain.
I guess because Halloween was such a big deal to us, I’d like to see every child be able to fully embrace the fun, food and chance to hear “Wow, I love your costume, Dude!”
But I concur that every kid deserves to make their own rules, have their own fun in their own way and make it work for them.
I fully understand what we found exciting and interesting bears no resemblance to life in today’s world.
So if it works for today’s kids, that’s all that matters.
My memories of Halloween are special. I’m certain theirs will be also. No matter how they dress.
Hell, anytime someone is passing out free candy it’s the best holiday ever. I imagine that’s something that hasn’t changed. After all, isn’t that a big part of Halloween fun?
A good Boo could never beat a great Snickers bar. Still can’t, so maybe nothing has really changed at all.
I’m dressing up as a teenager this year without a single ache or pain. I hope I can pull that one off. It may be too much of a stretch.
Happy Halloween, everyone!
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